Fat Girls Guide: Why We Hate Domestic Violence, part 1

Fat Girls always believe in speaking their mind. They often do so with a sprinking of swear words and follow it up with excessive ice cream.

Alec Baldwin is NOT a Fat Girl.

While we may all love Alec on 30 Rock, the following is an example of his abusive behavior.

Those who abuse want control. They decide the time, the place, and what will happen. When anyone gets in the way of that, they have lost control and will do what they feel is necessary to regain the power.

Alec Baldwin left this message for his DAUGHTER. Not his wife, which while still completely abusive and inappropriate would still be between adults. No, this is left for his pre-teen daughter.

You see, people, Fat Girls hate domestic violence. We abhor anyone trying to take away someone's power and make them afraid. Fat Girls hate fear.

Fat Girls empower.

Of course, more will come on domestic violence in the Fat Girls Guide, but this is such a blatant example that it was a good way to introduce the uninformed to the issue of domestic violence.

Below is the message transcript:

"Hey I wanna tell you something, okay? and I want to leave a message for you right now cause again it's 10:30 here in New York on a Wednesday and once again I've made an ass of myself trying to get to a phone to call you at a specific time. When the time comes for me to make the phone call, I stop whatever I'm doing and I go and I make that phone call at 11 o'clock at morning in New York and, if you don't pick up the phone, at 10 o'clock at night and you don't even have the god damned phone turned on. I want you to know something, okay? I'm tired of playing this game with you. I'm leaving this message with you to tell you, you have insulted me for the last time. You have insulted me. You don't have the brains or the decency as a human being. I don't give a damn that you're 12 years old or 11 years old or that you're a child, or that your mother is a thoughtless pain in the ass who doesn't care about what you do as far as I'm concerned. You have humiliated me for the last time with this phone. And when I come out there next week, I'm gonna fly out there for the day just to straighten you out on this issue. I'm going to let you know just how disappointed in you I am and how angry I am with you that you've done this to me again. You've made mefeel like shit and you've made me feel like a fool over and over and over again and this crap you pull on me with this god damned phone situation that you would never dream of doing to your mother, and you do it to me constantly and over and over again. I'm going to get on a plane, and I'm going to come out there for the day and I'm going to straighten your ass out when I see you, do you understand me? I'm going to really make sure you get it, then I'm going to get on a plane, turn around and come home. So you better be ready Friday the 20th to meet with me so I can let you know just how I feel about what a rotten little pig you really are. You are a rude, thoughtless little pig, okay?"